Not choosing your words

Thinking before you speak is generally good. It stops you from saying things you might come to regret and it helps you to explain yourself clearly and winsomely. But if you're the sort of person accustomed to monitoring your words, you can fall into the opposite trap, becoming too cautious of how you speak, which can feel a bit fake. I'd really like to do more just saying things the way I see them without worrying too much about people getting offended or confused.